The Personal Connect - An Ideal Friendship - T ABRAHAM
A connect with someone is something that comes with some qualities present in two people that brings them close to each other. This connect is a personal connect and nothing intolerable is accepted and something found weird or detestable is an indicator that it is not the person whom you can term as a 'friend' but they end up being a foe. So, friendship is not something that can be attributed to everyone and anyone but there is someone or only one whom I can term as a friend and friendship is a very sacred relationship and everyone cannot accept everyone or anyone as a friend.
The term 'friend' is being used very often and some have a plentitude of people to call using this term and few of them claim a very few to be their friends or just one person to be a friend. It is a common notion about people that the one having a large crowd around them and does all the mischief and detestable things are always not being scrutinized of their iniquities and disorderliness but the ones who have a very small quantity of friends is a target point for the evil to spread in the air around them to blame them and scrutinize them unnecessarily.
There is no rule in this world that we have to talk to everyone who are in our immediate surroundings and it does not mean that eventually it leads one to loneliness if one is left alone and if he keeps himself isolated from the people who are present in his immediate surroundings if the crowd is detestable and if they do not meet his expectations. The need to communicate and interact is something that is not always to be done in an informal fashion and if one is able to communicate and express himself in a group discussion and is able to work with a team and still remains as an introvert at all other times it is not to be pointed out. The person is not keeping quiet when asked to communicate and rather he uses his voice and breath in a more productive manner rather than recklessly wasting it. Wanting to be an introvert during majority of the time and becoming extroverted for some situations is not a crime and some tutors see it this way and bully the children along with the detestable crowd and the evil entities.
The force of connecting with the people around us is something that drives one in the beginning but when time passes by, some of us or rarely a few of us come to know that none can connect with us. For example, there are certain amount of kindness and friendliness which we expect to receive and also the person who is in this immediate locale should not get jealous of the person trying to connect with him and there is no room for physical violence, fakeness, gossip, rumor, bullying, harassment and selfishness among someone who can be given this sacred term 'friend'.
If not found in the immediate locale, then move to a bigger crowd and start hunting for the right person to be your friend. But never accept even a minor quality of detestable nature, if you can sense a total evil and nuisance in a person it is good to completely keep them away from us rather than we ruining our happiness and progression in our lives.
Thus, for a college student it is not a crime not to have a friend inside your classroom but rather connect with your juniors and seniors and other streams and departments rather than wasting your time by trying your level best to connect with your classmates which at times is totally an impossible case.
(Note: This statement is a true one and has been experimented by trying to connect to a variety of audience in my immediate locale and the absence of this personal connect is something that creates this statement and it is not necessary for everyone to accept everyone in their life as one should only try to make one's life meaningful and purposeful which would in turn automatically provides one with an abundance of happiness)
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